Talking to parents or family members about assisted living can be tough. The move to a senior living community is often viewed as a loss of one’s independence, and many seniors stubbornly avoid discussing this topic because they are afraid they will be forced to make a move they are not ready to make. Therefore, it is key for families to make this decision together.
At Evergreen Place, we recognize that a decision to move is a big decision. The truth is that assisted living can extend a person’s independence, improve their social interaction and overall health.
Broaching the topic of assisted living well before it is needed can help remove some of the anxiety and uncertainty from the equation, making it easier for all involved. It is important you have a plan in place before it becomes a crisis. Being proactive from the onset can help make a transition easier when the time comes to move your loved one into assisted living. Let Evergreen Place help take the fear out of starting the conversation early.
How to begin: Find a casual setting in the home. Start by saying, “I know this is a hard topic to discuss, but I want to honor your wishes. We don’t have to make any decisions today but helping me understand your mindset about assisted living will make it easier to prepare in the future.”
Remember as you discuss your loved one’s options that assisted living is a community. And you don’t just get a room but a full apartment with multiple layout options. Point out the social engagement opportunities to enrich their lives. Highlight professionals cooked meals being prepared for them, laundry and housekeeping provided. These amazing activities and services provided will advance your senior’s free time to enjoy the retirement your loved one deserves!
At Evergreen Senior Living in Champaign, we want you and your loved one to feel confident in your decision making. When your senior is comfortable, schedule a visit to our community so they can experience it first-hand.
